***QUESTION***
OK, I'll keep this short and sweet. I used to SUCK at getting
girls and was terrified of rejection and talking to strange girls
in public. Bought your book, and changed my whole approach to
women. I was in future shop and this sales-girl dropped this palm
screen-cover that I was going to buy between two glass display
cases. So I immediately starting busting on her with a serious
face how she did it on purpose, just because it was the only one
they had in the store. Anyhow when I was leaving, I told her the
least she could do was to give me her number. She laughed and did,
and I called her the next day. She said she had to go and was
busy, so I told her I bought another screen-cover at her
competition store, to keep up the Cocky & Funny. I called back 2
more times and each time she was busy. This has happened a few
times when I have called girls after getting their number.
Sometimes I wait a few days after getting a girl's number, so I
don't appear desperate; but this doesn't seem to have it's desired
effect. But I am obviously doing something wrong because once I
get the number, it usually ends there. When is it best to call a
girl after getting her number, and what's the secret to success to
meet quickly for your half-hour cup of tea plan after getting a
girl's number?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I have just one word for you:
EMAIL.
Get the email.
You'll get probably twice as many emails returned the first time
as you will phone calls.
And with email, you can follow up if she doesn't email you back.
#2
can say:
"What, playing hard to get so soon? Talk to me."
...and it doesn't come off as needy.
If you CALL and say that, it does come off as needy.
Don't ask me why, but it seems that email has all kinds of great
benefits that the phone doesn't.
Start the dialogue with email, then switch to a short phone call
to set up the first meeting... then move to meeting in person.
Works much better.
Send
her a charming email, and meet her for tea. You're doing great.
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