***QUESTION***
Hi Dave, I need your help !!!
My situation is this..... When I go to clubs, I don’t have to much
problem going over to a girl that I like, so it isn’t a lack of
confidence. But after a short space of time I find myself
struggling to keep the conversation going and start asking the
boring questions like, Where do you come from ? How long have you
lived there ? Do you drive ?
BORING.......
What the hell do you ask a girl you know nothing about ?
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, you do need my help.
The answer is simple:
STOP TRYING TO KEEP THE CONVERSATION GOING.
As soon as you start talking, END the conversation.
Say "It was nice meeting you, I'm going to get back to my
friends..." then turn away. Quickly turn back and say "Hey! Do you
have email?" If she says yes, pull out a pen and paper and say
"Here, write it down... I'd like to talk to you again."
It's really not that difficult.
The problem in busy, crowded public situations is that there are
WAY too many distractions. You're competing with music, loud drunk
people, or whatever else is around. It's like trying have a
meaningful conversation at a baseball game.
Instead,
get the info, and move on. If you follow up with a charming email,
you'll hear back 50%-80% of the time (in my experience).
And for GODSAKES... STOP ASKING BORING QUESTIONS! You're not on a
job interview. And neither is she. Boring, lame, typical questions
only position you as an average dork.
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