***QUESTION***
Jedi Master,
Your material has unbelievable results, After reading your book
and newsletters, I am finding myself in a dilemma of needing to
let some of the women down in order to make room for others.
The problem is they keep wanting to fill my schedule and I haven't
learned or need to learn how to let these women know that like
yesterdays newspaper, I have read and prefer to read current
events as opposed to rereading the same newspaper over and over. I
guess I am being a wussy in this regard cause I just do not know
how to say See Ya?
How does the master say this without being mean. I want to let
them go without hurting their self esteem, they have done nothing
wrong, they are beautiful, I just want to move on and enjoy, the
riches you have endowed upon me, without hurting them, and without
being a wussy in the process.
G N
Portland OR
David D.: I'd say that the problem you're experiencing is probably
being caused BEFORE it actually happens. How do women know if a
man is interested in them for a "long term" relationship... or if
he's just interested in dating casually?
The trigger for this is HOW OFTEN YOU SEE THEM, and how often you
CALL them. Of course, there's more... like whether or not you buy
gifts, talk about how you feel, ask her to be your girlfriend,
etc.
But if you want to just see a woman casually and not have her
become "hooked" on you, then don't call her more than a couple of
times a week, and don't see her more than once a week... maybe
twice sometimes.
This should solve your problem.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
You always have success stories with guys that say "I'm a good
looking guy". What about us guys that are average or slightly
below average, balding, or thick?? Does this stuff work for us as
well? Or is this just help guys that already get dates get MORE
dates?? Are us average or below average guys out of luck?? I get
an occasional hot girl but they are few and far between.
M
David D.:
I'd say that 1 in 100 of the emails that I get are from guys who
say "I'm a good looking guy". And most of the guys who I know that
are really successful with women aren't unusually "good looking".
Some of my friends who are unbelievably good at attracting
BEAUTIFUL women are not at all "good looking". And if you think
about your own life, I'll bet that you'll realize that the guys
you know yourself who are best at getting dates with attractive
women aren't the guys you know who are the richest, tallest, or
most handsome.
In other words, YES... this stuff works for "regular" guys!
...and, in fact, if you're reading this newsletter right now and
you'd like to really take your success with women to the next
level, then I have a few words for you.
It wasn't that long ago that I personally didn't have the ability
to even TALK to a woman I didn't know... never mind getting a
date. I spent a few YEARS trying just about everything I could
find to help me.
I read books, listened to tapes, went to seminars... I tried it
all. But nothing really worked consistently for me.
The real breakthroughs came when I started spending time with a
lot of guys who were NATURALLY successful with women. When I say
"naturally" I don't mean that women walked over and threw
themselves at these guys... I mean that they had each figured out
how to attract a lot of beautiful women ON THEIR OWN.
What I found was incredible...
Even though most of these different guys had NEVER EVEN MET one
another, they had a LOT in common. They did a lot of the same
things... the said a lot of the same things... and they behaved in
a lot of the same ways.
So I took what I learned, I tested it all out, and I refined it
and created a whole system for how a regular guy can increase his
success with women and dating.
That's it in a nutshell.
I personally went from not knowing how to even talk to a woman I
didn't know to being able to get dates with even the most
beautiful women... and I practice what I preach.
The things that I teach in my eBook and CD program are things that
I use PERSONALLY in situations with women.
It's not a bunch of made-up garbage and old recycled books from 25
years ago.
And you can go right now and download my eBook here:
www.datingtipsformen.info
