I have had a girlfriend for 6 months who is incredible
in personality, intelligence, and looks. You were right
when you said that getting hot women does not make other
guys like you more but rather they become secretly jealous.
This is a good problem to have, however, and I guess the
price of success is having some people dislike you for it,
which I can deal with. Anyway, I realize that you don’t
often talk about relationships but here is the question:
Will the physical transitions that I make with her become
old and predictable?
For example, I have used the smell technique successfully
a few times, but sometimes she seems impartial to
it. I always do the teasing/soft touch thing too,
which used to get her anxious and excited but now
seems to be less exciting and more predictable. How
can I mix things up? The hair tug has also worked
magically well, when done at the right time.
I guess I would like your thoughts on getting her
physically turned on other than with my personality,
and I would like your thoughts on predictability when
getting physical.
Thanks for all you do.
-T, Minnesota
David D. Replies:
DANGER WILL ROBINSON... DANGER!
I just can't avoid relationship questions... I try, but I can't do
it.
STOP BEING PREDICTABLE.
You've only heard me say it about a bazillion times now. My
thoughts on "predictability when getting physical" are as follows:
DON'T.
Here are three things that would be MUCH better than becoming
predictable:
1) Shooting yourself in the foot with a BIG gun.
2) Buying a Pinto Station Wagon.
3) Taking a moment every day to CONSCIOUSLY avoid set patterns in
your life that KILL attraction.
Take it from me, a man who has screwed up more than one
relationship by becoming predictable... DON'T.
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