***QUESTION***
Dear David,
I've read the first chapter of your book and already I've gotten
results and a clearer vision of why I date and who I want to date.
I'm leaving the "Nice Guy/Loser" behind and really getting what I
want and giving women what they want too, a cocky /funny man that
they can't rule with their whims.
Thanks,
E."
David D.: It's really amazing to me that a lot of us guys use a
strategy called "Be a nice guy" when we're with a woman that we
are attracted to...
But that this very strategy prevents us from EVER experiencing
real success and mastery in this area!
What's with that?
Like you said, you're now GIVING WOMEN WHAT THEY WANT: A cocky,
funny man that they can't control. Enjoy the rest of the book.
***QUESTION***
Dear David:
I've had a lot of success dating on the Internet, but I would
always respond with the typical, boring description and "hope to
hear" sort of introduction, and let my picture do the selling, as
I am a handsome guy. Well, last night I was browsing and I saw a
BEAUTIFUL woman. I responded with the "let me guess, you get about
50 emails a day from geeks" email. Well, her response back started
out with "How did you get my password, because you must have been
reading my emails", and ended with "so what do you do when you're
not writing charming emails?". I included my photo, but I think
I'm in here.
Thanks,
J."
David D.: Isn't that GREAT?! I love to hear stories like this
one... By the way, you would absolutely not believe that volume of
email that comes in to me saying "Hey, I lost the newsletter with
the personal ad response in it... can you send it to me again?"
and "Everyone is talking about how well the personal ad letter you
wrote works... can you send it to me?" and such. If only I had the
time to sit at my computer day and night answer all of the
requests... In any event, make sure you get her on the phone ASAP,
and don't dilly-dally. Strike while the iron is hot.
***QUESTION***
Lots of respect Dave,
I have an issue, no matter where i am and i see a girl that i
like, i am some how afraid to go over and talk to her. If you
could let me know what to do to get rid of this fear as soon as
possible.
Thanks."
David D.: It takes a lot of nerve to admit that you're afraid in
these situations. You're not alone. Here's the deal: Every one of
us is different.
I know you want a quick solution, but a quick solution depends
more on you than it does on anything else. I recommend that you
start by chatting with women on AOL and other instant messaging
services. This is great free practice, and it allows you to think,
because IMs are slow.
Next, work your way up to conversations with waitresses, checkers,
bar tenders, hostesses, and other women who are being paid to be
nice to you. Then, try doing something that involves a lot of
people with a common interest... like yoga, pottery, or sports.
These situations have a lot of built in opportunities to talk to
women you don't know.
Finally, start talking to women that you see everywhere. Of
course, it's very important to know what to say, and how to talk
to them. For a full explanation of the mindset and attitude, refer
to my book "Double Your Dating."
It's up to you how fast you progress. Remember, they don't bite...
(well, most of them don't).
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