***QUESTION***
David:
I have been using the techniques like C&F and have had a huge
success. Honest to God, i now have several girls on the ropes, and
i have the luxury of choosing my choice. It is wonderful. You are
a genius. (i figured your ego needed a little boost)
Now i have a situation on my hands. There is a new girl at my
workplace, who is very attractive and funny. We get along great.
The other day i told her about a concert that i am going to and
she begged me, not just begged but pleaded with me to get her a
ticket. Then within the next 5 minutes she was asking me for my
number and email address. That is right asking me. I made a smart
remark along the lines of "I've only been training you for 3 days
and you are already hitting on me, damn that has to be a new
record...(dramatic pause) Most girls only take a couple of minutes
to see my un-resistable charm." I realize it isn't the greatest
line ever but it worked. She was all over it. And retorted with "I
always was the stubborn one." So now she is emailing me, and
calling me and always talking to me and flirting with me at work.
So far so good, here is where the problem kicks in. The other
night i am walking out from work and locking the building and she
looks over rolls her eyes, and sighs that her boyfriend is here to
pick her up. the next day she came to work and was telling me that
she and her boyfriend are going to be breaking up soon and she
doesn't know when. What do i do? I mean to me all the signs are
there, how do i field this one? Do i even DARE field this one?
HELP
n.s ND
>>>MY COMMENTS:
OK, two rules of thumb:
1. Don't dip your pen in the company ink.
2. Avoid women who are involved.
Why? Because it's usually just plain short-sighted to do these
things.
Some
boyfriends are jealous and crazy, and if a workplace romance goes
bad (which they usually do), then it can create all kinds of weird
vibes. Trust me.
I have to comment, though... you're technique and flirting is
FANTASTIC. You're really onto something with this line of humor. I
love it.
If you haven't yet gotten your copy of my online book "Double Your
Dating" (yea, the one that we're talking about), then what the
heck are you waiting for?
Just to go:
www.datingtipsformen.info
This book and the three bonuses that come with it are the
FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these
articles will make more sense once you have read the book.
