Two Stages of
Dating Women
The
Pick Up
A few things you need to know when approaching women if you want
to be successful.
After a few minutes of speaking to a girl don't immediately ask
her phone number. This will just make you appear to be desperate
and if you were lucky enough to get her number chances are that it
is a fake number or she just won't answer your call.
Make sure you don't comment on any part of her body i.e her legs,
arms etc this will just create a paranoia effect for her and
instead of concerning herself about speaking to you she will
probably be wondering what part of her body you are looking at
now.
If you are going to go on the dance floor with her make sure you
have a fair idea of how to dance. Don't be over extravagant, just
go with the way she is dancing. In a sense go with the flow.
Remember not to build yourself up to much and explain to her about
how much you can bench press, etc.
Once you make the approach you need to immediately accept that you
are right bang center in the lions den. Instead of getting nervous
just forget about it and go for it.
Worrying about it is were you will go wrong. Do it without
thinking. Walking up to a girl and offering to buy her a drink is
saying 2 things:
1) I am a wuss and I am hoping this will impress you
2) I don't know what to say so I will offer to buy you a drink in
the hope you will start a conversation
The next time you are out walk up to a girl and use this line,
this will work and you can thank me later:
"Hi, you caught my eye when I came into the room. What's your
name"
She will have a flattered look on her face, and will tell you her
name and start talking to you. Remember that once she starts
speaking to you don't go into wuss mode.
e.g. paying her compliments, buying her drinks. Make sure you stay
confident and funny. When a girl gives you a compliment, for
example:
" You're funny "
" You look good "
" You smell nice "
Always answer with either of these 2 lines
" I'm glad you like it "
or
" Thanks for noticing "
The above compliments were some examples you can work them 2 lines
into the most compliments you receive.
The First Date
When you are speaking to a girl always remember to pay attention
to her. Even if what she is saying is not in the slight bit
interesting still listen to what she has to say. Maintain eye
contact and listen to everything that she has to speak about.
Girls love men who show interest in what she has to say. One of
the best dates you could do is to make her a home cooked meal. In
other words learn to cook something fancy and tasty.
By doing this, she is in your home and you can silently impress
her with your cooking talents. Have you never noticed how women
always seem to be attracted to chef's?
Always have manners if you eat out. Whatever the waitress or
waiter does always say thank you. This will impress her yet again.
Remain humorous, go and find some funny jokes on the Internet.
Don't go overboard though, just learn a few for some witty
comments every now and again.
Dress well. Find something stylish to wear and also make sure to
use a nice cologne. One I came across lately that has got me many
compliments is Acqua di Gio Men by Armani. It is not too
expensive.
On the first date take her to a place were you will both feel
comfortable. Go somewhere you have been before that you know is
chilled and relaxed.
Till Next Time,
Chris Fox
Author of "The Ultimate Pick Up & Dating Guide"
http://1st-pick-up-line.com
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