The Truth About
Attraction
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by The Dating Wizard
What you are about to read is not conjecture. I didn't make it up
or dream it up. It is based on my ACTUAL experimentation in the
REAL world. And not just one day's worth. I'm talking YEARS of
testing this stuff.
Super gorgeous women are not necessarily attracted to guys with
cars, big houses, a sense of humor, or anything else PER SE. And
they are actually NOT particularly attracted to JERKS, per se.
What women ARE attracted to is something that I call SUPERIOR
INTRINSIC VALUE. SIV for short. It's got nothing to do with cars
or any other external object.
SIV's are the INTRINSIC personal abilities and traits that are
considered superior by a woman's biology and ALSO by the society
to which she identifies with.
So for example, almost ANY ability that you possess that society
values will not only be respected by a woman, but actually, to
varying extents, make a woman attracted to you.
So for example, FIREFIGHTERS are highly valued by society. They
are heroic, etc. And guess what, FIREFIGHTERS are considered sexy
to the max. Now, it's not the OFFICIAL JOB, it's not the money,
even if he didn't get paid, this ability has INTRINSIC value in
our society.
How about something like a sense of humor?
Well, society DOES value a sense of humor, but if you make
SELF-DEPRECATING jokes about yourself to a woman, she may very
well interpret that you are LOW on INTRINSIC VALUE despite your
sense of humor.
And so your sense of humor was used in a way that actually LOST
you points on the sexy scale.
See that?
How about being RICH? MONEY is not INTRINSIC to your PERSONAL
IDENTITY. So winning the lottery doesn't make you sexy. But if you
for example earned it on your own without having the path smoothed
for you it is an ABILITY that is ATTRACTIVE. The MORE society
VALUES that ability, or that TRAIT, the SEXIER you become.
And yes, LOOKS is also an INTRINSIC trait that is part of you, but
it is only ONE trait. But here is the REALLY REALLY BIG NEWS:
YOUR ACTUAL INTRINSIC VALUE IS ALMOST COMPLETELY IRRELEVANT.
WHAT DOES MATTER IS WHAT WOMEN FEEEEEL YOUR INTRINSIC VALUE IS!
This is why you can have a guy who has every credential in the
book who is alone on Saturday night and another guy who has got
NOTHING and has more babes than he can handle. A woman bases her
feelings for you on just about EVERYTHING you do. Even the way you
dress. And how she feels it conveys your intrinsic worth or lack
of it.
And she does it all UNCONSCIOUSLY.
You can't EXPLAIN to her why you are a sexy guy. Or why someone
else is NOT a sexy or good guy for her. It doesn't work that way.
The "sexual choices" processes in the human mind are based on life
the way it was a million years ago, not the way it is today. A
time when we sized up our sexual mates by observing rather than
talking over coffee.
You're not going to change evolution overnight. Instead, you have
to learn to COMMUNICATE with a mind that is operating on a million
year old
program. A program designed to deal with a different situation.
Mind you, it was a VERY EFFECTIVE program one million years ago.
It's just not updated yet.
So we have to learn to speak its (her) language or we're all going
to get nowhere, okay? Hey, women don't mind working hard to speak
to us in OUR illogical language- i.e. DOING THEIR BEST TO LOOK
LIKE GORGEOUS BABES! So let's do our part and communicate our best
too.
The Truth About
Attraction
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by The Dating Wizard
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Till next time,
Michael W.
