Radical Honesty
[Real World Seduction]
For the last couple of weeks I have had the pleasure of teaching
my step-by-step system for ATTRACTING women to a few select guys.
With every one of these guys there was the same thing missing.
This one thing, however, is something that every guy who is
incredible with women has. Being privy to this one secret can
distinguish the magnetic Casanova from the floundering Waldo.
Before getting into the nitty-gritty of “What this secret is?” I’m
going to review some basics.
As those of you who have read my book know, ATTRACTION is not what
a woman prefers. Women prefer model-esque looking men on the wake
of manhood, who are lumbered with bank accounts analogous to Bill
Gate’s, elephant sized penises, and tongues that have the stamina
of world class boxers. If this is what attraction was, most of the
male population would not be getting laid. The collective male sex
drive would be so deprived that the world’s petroleum source would
be exhausted within the next year.
ATTRACTION, however, is what you do to a woman’s mind and body.
The “body” part is creating the emotion inside her of wanting and
reaching for more of you. The “mind” part is you defining the
underlying meaning of the interaction between the both of you as
you being the one who is the PRIZE.
Often times ATTRACTION starts on the periphery of consciousness.
At first the person feeling ATTRACTION towards another is barely
even aware of it. Unknowingly, the person begins to reach and want
for more of the person they are attracted to.
A caveat: I am not talking about judging a person as ATTRACTIVE –
for example, thinking, “Wow…that girl is really hot!” This is not
ATTRACTION. ATTRACTION is when a person – psychically or
physically or both – begins to reach and want for more of another
person. Some examples of this would be: leaning into another
person who is leaning away from you, or trying to impress someone
to get their validation.
Am I saying that you should never be attracted to a woman? No! –
that would make you gayer than my flaming gay hairdresser who –
“even he!” – is occasionally attracted to women. Being attracted
to others is a normal part of our biological hardwiring. Letting a
woman, however, become attracted to you first and letting her
always be a little bit more attracted to you than you are to her,
allows you to be the PRIZE in the interaction. As those of you who
have read my book know, always defining the underlying meaning of
your interactions with a woman as you being the PRIZE creates a
space for her to continuously become more and more ATTRACTED to
you.
Okay, so now for the big secret that distinguishes guys who get
more women than rock stars from guys who only have one woman in
their life – good old Rosy Palm!
Do you want to know the secret? If your answer was “yes,” that’s
really gross because it means you’re ATTRACTED to me.
Okay okay already! – I’ll tell you the secret so you’ll stop being
so attracted to me.
Guys who are really good with women are acutely aware of when a
woman creates the emotion in them of wanting and reaching for more
of her. Because they are aware of this, they can consciously stop
themselves from wanting and reaching for a woman (Remember: if you
are not conscious of it, then you do not have the control to stop
yourself from doing it).
Being aware of this, furthermore, opens guys up to noticing what
women do to trigger men to feel the emotion of wanting and
reaching for more of them. Women are naturally seductive, men are
not. Guys who are awesome at attracting women learned how to do
this by paying close attention to how women triggered attraction
in them, and then started using these very strategies back on
women. All of my strategies for generating attraction in women,
for example, are based on the strategies women used to trigger me
to feel ATTRACTION towards them.
Most men, however, let their ego and pride cloud them from
objectively seeing when a woman is generating attraction in them.
Most men have a hard time admitting when they are, for example,
acting needy towards a woman or trying to win her approval or
letting her disrespect them or only listening to her blab on about
something that does not interest them in hopes that she will sleep
with them…or whatever.
Learn to be RADICALLY HONEST with yourself when a woman triggers
the emotion in you of wanting and reaching for more of her. This
will enable you to develop at a rapid pace and start becoming
aware of elements of human psychology that most people are
oblivious to. Many of the tools in my book will help you do this.
My book is probably the only material that exists next to real
life experience that will help you notice when women are
triggering you to feel ATTRACTION for them.
I am going to share another secret with you that will enable you
to generate a special form of ATTRACTION with every woman you
encounter for the rest of your life.
A few weeks ago, I saw “Mean Girls,” a movie about high school
cliques, popularity, and mind games girls play. In the movie one
of the girls demonstrates RADICAL HONESTY when she says, “Just
because you hate someone doesn’t mean you don’t want them to like
you.” These words really hit home for me. If I am really honest
with myself, I can think of a few times when there were women I
consciously couldn’t stand, yet did all sorts of subtle things to
try and get them to like me. And trying to get a woman to like you
is a manifestation of having the emotion of wanting and reaching
for more of her. So, unknowingly, I was actually ATTRACTED to some
of these women who consciously repulsed me.
So what is the lesson to be learned?
DON’T do things to try and win over women who have personalities
that rhyme with witch.
Furthermore, just because a girl tells you that she can’t stand
you, doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want you to like her. And her
trying to get you to like her is a manifestation of her wanting
and reaching for more of you. Put in other words, she’s ATTRACTED
to you.
The interesting thing is this: Most women want you to like them.
And because of this, most women, on some level, already are
ATTRACTED to you. Most women stop being attracted to a guy because
he lets her know too early in the interaction that he likes her.
By not being so apt to let her know that you like her, she’ll try
and get you to like her – she’ll reach for and want you to like
her. And this, my friends, is a form of ATTRACTION. In my book I
go into depth on how to recognize when women do things to get us
to like them, and how to use this to generate MASSIVE ATTRACTION
in women.
To learn more about my step-by-step system for attracting women
and receive your five day attracting women email mini course
visit:
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'Til next time,
Swinggcat
