How To Stop A
Woman Anywhere And Meet Her
Something that just might make you take a new perspective and
think about things in a way you've never thought about them
before... something that just might stir you up enough to get you
to take some ACTION...
First, I'd like you to think about the last time you saw a really
attractive woman, you wanted to go over and talk to her, but for
whatever reason you just didn't do it. I'm talking about a REALLY
hot one.
Take your time if you need it. I'm not going anywhere.
Good.
Now, let me ask you something:
Did you ever stop a day or two after one of these situations
happened to think about where that particular woman might be, and
what she might be doing?
Did you ever stop to think about what the rest of her day was like
after she walked by you?
About the ten or twenty other men that saw her that day who didn't
have the nerve to talk to her... and the two or three that did...?
About the most-likely BORING job that she went to, the
same-old-same-old "Wow, you're beautiful" lines that she heard
from the guys who got up the nerve to talk to her?
Did you ever consider that it might be useful to take a little
time out and consider what it might be like to be an attractive
woman, walking through life having almost every man you see light
up with the "Whoa" look?
Hmmm...
What do you think we might be able to figure out if we just took a
few minutes to explore what that attractive woman's PRIVATE life
is like?
Here are a few things that I've come up with:
1) Most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS by most men.
One of the reasons for this is that guys have NO IDEA what to do
when they run into an attractive woman, so they do the same
default thing: Dumb look, compliment.
2) As I've said before, and I'm sure I'll say many many many times
in the future: You can't BORE a woman into feeling attracted to
you. If she's most likely got a boring life like everyone else,
and you do something that every one of the other 499 guys she's
going to walk by this month did, then you're probably not going to
attract any special attention.
3) If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING WHAT OTHER GUYS DO
you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of the game.
Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never thought you'd be
thinking like a woman, did ya? So what are a few things you might
do to:
1) Not be like the other 499 boring, predictable, "nice" loser
guys she encountered.
2) Be interesting, attractive, attention-getting in a way that
makes her feel like you might actually be someone to provide her
with a pinch of spice for her life?
I thought you'd never ask...
And, as you may have already predicted, I have a few ideas of my
own (but don't let that stop you from thinking about this on your
own as often as you get a chance).
To start with, you'd probably want to get rid of the "Wow, you're
a beautiful woman, and I'm just an average guy admiring you" vibe.
That's not helping. Next, you could take a moment and think about
how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might act... then
choose that style.
My experience is that if you take an attitude of "I guess fate has
good taste putting us in the same place, now let's see if you have
a personality to match your looks", then stir in a generous
portion of Cocky and Funny, you're likely to do well.
Here's a variation of something I've used myself once or twice.
YOU: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" [leaning back and
playing it cool, talking cool and slow]
HER: "Sure"
[pause pause pause for suspense]
YOU: "Are you single?" [stone cold straight face]
HER: "Well, um..."
YOU: "I'll take that as a yes..." [nodding, sly smile]
HER: [Laugher]
YOU: "Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might
really like you... if you're more than just a pretty face, that
is... He's funny, has great taste, and I think you'd like him...
I'd love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm on my way
somewhere... do you have email?" [very cool, calm tone of voice]
HER: "Yes."
YOU: Great... [takes out pen]... write it down for me, and I'll
have, uh [clears throat] HIM send you an email."
[Get email and wish the lady a good day.]
Now, let's talk about what just happened here.
First off, did I give her any compliments? Did I act like the
other 499 guys? Did I instantly communicate that "I'm not worthy"?
HELL NO.
I said "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" in a very laid-back,
almost too-relaxed and mysterious tone of voice.
Anyone will respond to that with a "yes".
Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her DIRECTLY if she was
single.
LOL... I really love this one. It's so fun. Most guys will say
"Uh, I'll bet you have a boyfriend, huh?" or "So do you have a
man?" or some other lame thing. The question "Are you single?"
takes women off guard. It's great. And then being assumptive when
she hesitated with an answer... in a cocky/funny way... magic.
Next I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-confusing little bit
about "knowing someone" that might find her interesting. Now, she
might think that it's really ME, but she won't know FOR SURE until
she gets the email.
And even then you might play with her a bit... "So, what did you
think of my friend? I think he might like you..." etc. The point
is, I can pretty much guarantee you that this particular sequence
hasn't happened to her lately. She's still trying to overcome her
sheer awe about how many guys in a row can ask "Don't I know you
from somewhere?"
This kind of fun approach will be a welcome breath of fresh air.
Now, I want you to do something. Go back and READ IT AGAIN... VERY
CAREFULLY. Imagine it happening exactly like it's written. Try to
imagine it in a few different settings. Work on it until you can
clearly see it happening in your mind's eye. (The reason I can see
it clearly is because I've done it so many times in real life!)
OK, so now you know how to approach women.
Fantastic.
I can remember when I first learned how to start approaching
women... I thought that if I could just start conversations
easily, the rest of it would be a snap. Well, after meeting a lot
of women, but not getting so many dates... and not having the few
dates I did get go anywhere... I realized that there was a lot
more to it.
The
reality is that success with women comes down to understanding
female psychology, knowing the entire "mating game" front to back,
and then knowing all the specific techniques and steps you need to
take at each moment with a woman.
And there's only one place in the world I know of that you can
learn all of this information quickly, easily, and thoroughly...
And if you're ready, then it's probably time for you to step up
and get yourself an education about how to attract women and KEEP
them attracted.
...and if you're reading this right now and you haven't yet
downloaded your copy of my online eBook "Double Your Dating", I
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And you will be Successfully Dating!
