Keeping The
Woman Of Your Dreams Attracted To You
***Question From A Newsletter Reader***
Hello, David!
I want to start by thanking you for your work. Once in a great
while, someone comes along that truly wants to help others
succeed, and puts in the effort to the research and testing, and
makes something great for others. You are one of those people,
and I'm glad to see you succeed by helping so many others do the
same.
I was reaching to find answers, like a lot of us were, and found
your material. It has been awesome. In the last week, I saw the
most attractive woman I perhaps ever have. She was a 9.5 on my
scale, which is truly rare to find for me. Not just in looks,
but a great personality. Instead of giving in to my normal
habits, I applied the methods you taught. We went out to a club,
and had a great time. I had another friend of mine there, and I
used him as a means to partially ignore her at times, constantly
making jokes that were just too quiet for her to hear, and
looking at her and smiling when doing it. She constantly wanted
to know what was funny, yet she wasn't mad, just shyly curious.
I was aloof, yet not terribly too distant from her. I would
wander off by myself, knowing she was with my friend, and leave
them hanging alone for a little while now and then. (I knew my
friend wasn't going to hit on her). I would go up to other girls
and whisper something in their ear right in front of her, to
give her the idea that I was completely comfortable in my own
skin with women. Once, on my way back from the dance floor, I
found her with some other guy. I flashed a sly little smile, but
kept on walking right by, as if to imply "You have a good time
there. I could care less. As a matter of fact, you look a tad
pathetic coming on to him." She soon returned and said that I
had been gone too long, and some guy had "dragged her away from
me". That night, I had resisted the urge to act like anything
but the kind of man you would teach someone to be. All urges at
wussness were disregarded, and I played the part to a tee. Even
though it didn't entirely feel normal or comfortable at first, I
could see that it was definitely working, so I kept it up. I
would occasionally catch her staring at me from the corner of my
eye, sometimes for 2 or 3 seconds. I didn't react, but just kept
saying to myself "Damn. David has been right the whole time".
I woke up the next morning with a weird feeling... this was
something I had never achieved before. I don't mean sex with a
woman soon after I met her, but the fact that she was so damn
gorgeous. At the risk of sounding a little chauvinistic, she was
the best girl I have ever had. Well, over the next two weeks or
so, I kept coming over and doing things during the days with her
and staying at night. This is when things began to change.
You had a timeless question from a guy once who said something
like "After I sleep with a woman why do I feel like hating her?"
Well, I normally feel the same. But with this girl, it was
different. I wanted to keep her. But, the more time we spent
together, the more we started to both feel like whatever I
sparked was fading quick. I could see the thrill of our initial
meeting was dying, and I wanted to add to my image in her mind
the idea that I could be a part of her daily life too, not just
the nighttime party one.
I felt like I had to show her something that proved I didn't
just want her for sex. I knew I couldn't let her interpret it as
me buying her attention or body, although I'm afraid that may
have been exactly what I did. I ended up purchasing her and her
roommate a full stock of groceries, which they definitely
needed. It gave me some kind of a sense that I had shown that I
was more than just a sex buddy, which really felt good to me.
However, lately she has pulled away. We will still go out and
have a good time, but more like friends, with only a little
flirting. She now refuses sex, saying "it would complicate
things." By the way, although she has been in long-term
relationships since she was 16, she currently isn't, and seems
to be enjoying the party life a lot. She is 22 now. I know you
said in your audio series that it is a mistake to try to tie
down a party girl, but she told me of her long-term history with
guys, and that's why I tried. Did I screw up by getting too
close too fast? Was it unrealistic for me to show that kind of
attention to her needs that quick or at all? How many times
should a guy see a girl each week if he wants to keep up the
attraction and have a great time, but not become too familiar to
her?
Thanks man.
Confused, -J
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D's Answer Here
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