How To Avoid The
Biggest Mistake That Guys Make With Women
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by The Dating Wizard
On a fundamental level, most guys are making a HUGE mistake in the
way they are trying to attract women. Guys are trying to appeal to
LOGIC. They try to show a woman how GOOD they will be to her,
because it seems to make SENSE that a person should WANT to be
with someone who treats them WELL.
But the problem is that SEXUAL DESIRE is OBLIVIOUS to logic.
Women are PROGRAMMED BY NATURE to feel MASSIVE sexual attraction
to someone they FEEL is SUPERIOR.
Notice I use the word FEEL. Not ACTUALLY superior, but someone
they FEEL is superior. What women FEEL are superior traits are
often INFERIOR traits from a LOGICAL stance. For example, we are
hardwired to appreciate what is hard to get.
So for example, let's say in the past, (thousands of years ago) if
a woman found that a man was hard to get, it was most likely a
result of him being too occupied with other women who took up all
his non-hunting time. The women he WAS with were attracted to his
brute hunting and survival skills, (without being conscious of WHY
they were attracted to it) and the other women who could not get
him evolved to feel attraction for such a hard to get man,
(without realizing WHY they felt that attraction) which made
sense, since being hard to get was then a good indicator of having
desirable characteristics for survival.
Today, however, it's very possible to have a man who COULD provide
AND impregnate her to have healthy children and yet NOT feel the
need to go around with many females and be "hard to get". He could
be SUPERIOR, yet also be looking to meet the right woman and
commit to her.
But women are simply NOT hardwired to feel attraction to a guy who
is this easy to get. They will feel he is an undesirable loser if
he is too easy to get.
So what happens is the jerk who is a total loser and never worked
a day in his life, and who has no time for his girlfriend because
he is too busy chasing other girls, has her going crazy for him
because by simply being HARD TO GET, he accidentally activated the
SWITCH in her head that makes her feel "THIS IS A SEXUALLY
DESIRABLE GUY!"
See? It's NOT logical, but you can understand how it could have
made sense, had the REASON for being hard to get been different.
Without getting literary on you guys, the same principle of being
hard to get is at work in the most famous romance of all time,
Romeo and Juliet. They come from different environments and social
classes that are forbidden to meet, thereby making BOTH the guy
and the chick crazy about each other. Both are hard to get.
Being hard to get is just ONE of THOUSANDS of concepts of
attraction. The key point, though, is that guys are confusing what
is NICE with what actually TRIGGERS attraction, whether a woman
WANTS to feel that attraction or NOT!
A woman cannot HELP but feel attraction when you activate all the
behaviors and cues that TRIGGER attraction!! And unless you
display these cues, nothing else on earth will make one bit of
difference.
PRIMAL sexual attraction is not stimulated by getting a woman to
CONSCIOUSLY THINK about who she should be with. It's not activated
by "good judgment". So forget about trying to
appeal to a woman's sense of "good sexual judgment".
When men try to appeal to her sense of good judgment, they are
trying to appeal to something that does not exist. It's totally
beyond all rational thought. The problem is that what nature gave
for women as "a sense of good judgment in guys" was actually
designed for an environment that no longer exists.
How To Avoid The Biggest Mistake That Guys Make With Women
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